Tuesday, July 08, 2008

All Of You've Been Waiting 2..

Work Proper
I was posted to serve the PPS community of neighbourhood devils and got to know the bestest senior of all time. She is my senior, who eventually became a friend and a god-mummy. She was always there to guide me with difficult root extractions (after which the magic teach phrase was 'giao like a milo can'), to listen and support my views and plans, to offer much needed words of wisdom and encouragement. I know i sowed into her life too, and taught her to smile like she was 2 decades younger.
There's so much we'll catch up during the countless dinners she bought me, and this bond we shared, nothing be replaced. Till today, i receive words of encouragement via sms-it comes once in a blue moon, but i hold it very dear.

I thank my SuperMama for giving me the opportunity to somewhat manage the Clinic after a mere 6 months, that i've gotten very used to working alone. There were little heart to heart individual talks with 2 superiors on one of the days i was back at the Board, and im still wondering if i left them a good impression. There was no pretence on my part, i spoke from my heart, and i hope i received the same kind of treatment too. I conclude that deep down, my dental superiors are genuinely nice folks who sincerely wish me great success in my future endeavors. Some of you might be rolling your fking eyeballs at me for the previous statement but i dont care cause having gone through small talks, there's an undeniable expression on their faces that left me a happy note.

While at HIP, I must credit myself for building great(by that i mean positive) relationships with the servants, security guard, school office staff(s), IT staff, few teachers, counsellor and most importantly, my little clients!

Its always a pleasure talking to UncleX-he was the 1st to know of my intention to resign. He shares with me bits of information bout his wife and filial son-with it comes the occassional complaints of other servants being lazy and blah blah. And the best part? He sings praises of me being demure and polite-teeheehee.
Then there's UncleY, who puts me in very difficult situations like 1) asking me configurations of his mobile phone-with text in characters i dont comprehend-Chinese. 2) calling up CPF board to enquire bout his insurance when I know where the problem lies. It might have been my poor Mandarin/Dialect, but no matter how hard i tried explaining that there're insufficient funds, he couldnt accept it. It took the poor Customer Service Officer >10mins of repetitive explanation in Chinese (WOW!), and >10mins of my time listen to him ramble bout our garh-men. Nonetheless, Im kind to register him in my memory for he calls me 美女-So superficial, i know.
Aunty Z pops by the Clinic with a broom and mop, and fills me in with little gossips.
The guards(both of the female species) greet me, vice versa, and help tell parents to wait at the gate for they are not allowed in the clinic. The 1st time i gave them 4 numbers, it came out first prize, with 2 numbers jumbled. I think they bought a $1 !-Bet ticket each, for they said, "if we 24 da, we'll get 2grand each and you'll get big ang baos today!"
My lunch khaki was PP, from the office, 3years my senior. The bulk of our conversation was bout diving, dance, charitable deeds, empowering her (been trying to change her mindset), getting her out of the couch potato lifestyle and asking her to engage herself in school/other activities. She shares with me bout her family and that's bout it. Someone told me she looked lonely after i left. Too bad-life goes on.
The others were the casual hi-how are you-good day-good bye acquaintances. Considering the amount of time spent in the clinic, this relationship was more than i could ask for. :)

Oh there's this student admirer too! Disgusting, lets not get into that. I love the way some of my lil clients (p1-2) jump/wave when they see me. Not that i have a thing for kids, but its heart warming to know that they acknowledge you despite being clad in a really fugly baby blue suit dress. The older ones who are desperately in search of an identity (talk bout puberty) gives me a wave and the hey-whats-up head tilt.

I received most compliments from parents during the June holidays, most of it carrying the mighty word-professional. I think i've been extremely tactful in handling demanding parents. Sometimes, the most effective way is to portray a 'MY way or no way' image, verbalise the magic words 'i understand your concerns', and give them a lee-way according to MY way. See its still MY way, and a satisfied secondary customer! Any supporters voting ME for a Nobel Peace Prize?
Clinical wise, i think preventive measures go a long way. My vote goes to Fuji7 Fissure Sealant/Protection for its fluoride releasing (i think this property is rechargable!) attributes. All you really need is * isolation, Fuji7 (Duh!), ball burnisher (to pick-up material), a cotton pellet coated with KY (Erm, i mean vaseline. Pun intended) and a finishing stone. ClinPro FS material is a great material to work with but its durability is questioned.
I've also done tooth-coloured restorations on grossly broken down 6s, and the result is beautiful. I've recalled the patient months later and there has been no leakage/breakage whatsoever, also informed to monitor signs and symptoms. P.S.: Please dont go around and bitch bout my doings because you are not informed of latest findings on certain materials. Much appreciated.
I did encounter a major setback, but it was also a positive experience afterall. I still stand firm that it wasnt my fault to begin with, for i took all measures. I remember a Preacher saying, "Bad things happen to good people"-and it has indeed! At the end of the day, I couldnt emphasize the gratitude i have towards my superiors and collegues. Best thing is, now i know what to do should any one else encounter that scenario. Yes you read it right-any one else, not me!

Thats bout all for work the past year.

Whats your story? Whats your legacy?

Monday, July 07, 2008

All Of You've Been Waiting 1..

Hello Earthlings.. I've been sitting on the Mission Trip post and yes, i've decided to move on and update you folks on what i've been up to the past weeks. Give me a lil more time to consolidate my thoughts and pen 'em down alright? For now, make do with whats written below. ;)

The balls of my feet are hurting from Tango practica and tons of disappointment tops everything off scale. Anyhow.

I tendered my resignation from the Board late May, served the supposedly sparse holiday crowd, bidded my farewells and cleared leave when school reopened. I appreciate the support provided during my tenure and I sincerely thank my superiors for the professional opportunities and personal development that they have provided me during the past year.

Outta Work Proper
I thoroughly enjoyed my year long stay with the Board. The 1st activity i tried was Dragon Boating, and man, it was tough. Strenuous(
took me awhile to spell this word) physical trainings aside, having to wake up at 7am on a Saturday was too much to ask for. Nonetheless, I love the morning sun and zest at Kallang Basin. I remember how much i wanted to give ourselves n more tries, but failed when objections were raised by her significant other.

Then there was a nation-wide healthy lifestyle campaign that took place on a Saturday in September 2007. I got to know and worked under DMC-awesome lady, easy to talk to, very practical and welfare orientated. I can laugh myself silly at her facial expressions! I was in my primitive days as a full-fledged working adult when i took part in this event, and was looking forward to claiming time off on one of those blueeee mondays. Yet, every experience brings about a learning point, and she made me realise and register the importance of possible situations(problems for that matter) that might arise. She was everywhere (literally), running around, making sure things were in place, yet having her fair share of fun and sense of accomplishment (i think). I met her again when i was at the Board(on one of my off days) for an exit interview and there's this torrent of joy flooding during those mere minutes.

Next came D&D in March 2008, the theme was Retrolicious. Though its of insignificant importance now, I must say i got into real unexpected shit. The organising comittee did an awesome job-i had a great portion of.. yummy and healthy Thai food, cat-calling, catching up with my coursemates, phototaking, 'dance' (' ' cause i was hands tied legs tied) and more than i could ask for.

Then came April 23rd's JP Morgan's Corporate Chase. It was my 1st fun run and definately memorable. Runs are tiring business but ironically, very fun and addictive, especially with a bunch of fun loving folks whom i've never came across before.
I thank my Trainer for the time and effort that was put into every training session. To top it off, there was great company and dinner too! And there's the Organiser to thank, for registering and coordinating all of us, for putting up with delayed email replies and the what nots. There's this very small chance we'll blow bubbles underwater together some day! Anyways, that day, i met SHL, who has since sunk a statement in me "i gave up alot of other things to.......". I further understood why there're people who give up (material) wants to satisfy a need. It was a casual post-run dinner and drink, but it was a great pleasure being around her. I'll never forget the place she bought me teh peng, the lil argument over rats and ?rodents, and that issue of Men's Health that busted the myth of avoiding caffeine before exercises. I met her again when i went back to HR(for the last time i hope) and she was all clad in stylo milo blazer i could barely recognize her!

These meetings are so divine-the way we met, and how i coincidentally bump into them when im at the board.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Bintan Mission





To many of us caught in the hustle bustle of city life and running the rat race, Bintan is a place for weekend getaways on her golf clubs, stretchy beaches, and resort offering spas and yummylicious barbeques. Ruth's 1st trip to Bintan gave her an interesting insight to life and the joy .. of being able to sow into the life of another.. to see the expression on a child's face upon receiving a lil present.. to receive a sincere word of gratitude.. to work hard and knock out but ready to do the same thing the next day.. to work with a dedicated team who are all there for a purpose because they know the need is there, to see that people whom i've never met before can become a colleague in a matter of hours. Nuff said, lets let pictures do the talking. :)

Health Education

An important aspect of health: Education and Prevention of disease.


The approach, staffing and information package was a roaring success! Kudos to the team!


Touching the lives of little ones..


Medical Side



Sterilisation Unit
One of those pots 'exploded'. We heard it, looked up and saw something 'free-fall', stared at each other for 5seconds, and got buried back at work. Drama-mania!


Set Up
Old bird at work.


SaunaDental work area on Day 1, 21st June.


Sterile instrument area set up in the middle of joined classroom. Desks overlaid with clean disposable white plastic sheets.


Instrument galore!!! (Look at xxx's damn shagged out face ion the left)


Cons area at the start of the day 1..


Midway pasar malam at cons area.


And the we-know-we-are-messy cons department..

Day 2 instrument common-pool at corridor.


Prostho Team
The trio at work.

Fabricating cold-cure dentures on the spot-produce most satisfying results. It brings back smiles and function, hence improve the lives of another. I love!




Oral Surgery Dept
How to smile so genuinely when faced with a crying kid? Ask her.




"And of course, we have successfully disproved the myth that you must have an oral surgeon on duty. Just need some experienced GPs that all."


Welfare
Lil pleasures life has in store admist the fatigue.



Not complaining but there being no proper handwashing facilities, most of us had lunch with powdered hands/semi-powdered not-very-clean-water washed hands.
Home made lunch by the villagers was yumminess to the max! There were loads of keropok and it reminded me of how NellyBoo and I used to go crazy over papadum.


Here's our lodging for the night. Service apartments well equipped with TV, air conditioning, hot water for bath and a kitchen! My darling junior found a roach the size of my middle finger-i decided to totally ignore her statement for fear of a sleepless night! On day 2, I woke up to the sounds of rain hitting on my window. Tired and wanting to sleep in, yet energized to embark on a fresh new day!


Here are photos of who else but MYSELF.. and some other lovely folks that brought more than sunshine to my weekend.


Siti's got Ruth charmed! She's so pretty i called her AiNi (part of her name, but to Ruth it means LoveYou)


2 juniors who are always full of positive vibe.


Cant you see she's so damn bubbly.



I couldnt emphasize how small the world gets.. (Isnt it obvious we're totally drained and not camera-ready)


Prettiest Lady On Board

This undergrad has a wealth of knowledge-really nice person to talk to during the choppy ride back to Sg.

My 1st instinct brought me to assisting..

Then Organiser reminded me of why i was there..


There's no point growing up if we loose the kid in us..


The 5th Teletubby. "Whatever keeps him dry" I hereby conclude, animation for kids bring about buckets of fun and jokes.. Mere 2 weeks and there're jokes bout Thomas the chuchu-train, TMNT, and now, teletubby!


My ex lecturer who can go on and on(literally), both in classroom and outfield. I love listening to him talk(for the 1st time).. Sometimes it tickles. Sometimes it brings messages of love and lessons life has taught.

"They are dirty, so what? They dont even have water to drink, you think they'd use it to bathe?" Adapted from a bus-ride-story-telling-session. I'm a cleanliness/hygiene freak but this line has changed my perspective.



His NYP students and graduate.


Kids playing in the sun and sand has, for the 1st time, brought a smile that cracked my hardened hard.






There's alot of people to thank for, and i have decided not to post their photos and my way-too-personal thoughts. I brought home with me bags of joy and wonderful memories and am ready for more hard work and good times. For this purpose, i want to be the best i know how and get invited back for more life changing trips.




Not exactly done with this post...

Monday, June 23, 2008

When Ruth was slim

Found these on an ex classmate's webby, taken during a class get together. I forgot what the occassion was!

They say there were too many cliques in class.. I beg to differ..
See, even folks from different cliques work together.
3 lucky guys-need no introduction on what they are doing right
Here's Geraldine Cady in her curly wurlies. Looking back, so ugly right.
Did we have uninvited guests? Haha.
Incomplete group peekcherr
See, i told you i WAS slim! What went wrong... Hmmmm